1. This post is about the absurdity of using the term you are defining in the definition. Calling it simply "nonsense" doesn't do it justice. Its an anti-definition.

2. I agree we should simply be kind to others & I don't think very many people have problems with a feminine guy (or vice versa) who chooses to dress like a woman, wear makeup, whatever. Those they lose their minds over that have their own self-control issues. But that's a *completely* different thing from a dude wearing a dress & then demanding everyone else arbitrarily change the definition of their words, & viciously attack them & call them a homophobe or nazi if they don't attest to a blatantly untrue statement. *That* is what one might call an extraordinary level of narcissism and also deeply "churlish." 😂