It looks like spam is picking up again. Web-of-Trust relays (and paid relays) can help with this. Here's a fresh list of WoT relays that you can use.

wss://wot.utxo.one

wss://nostrelites.org <- mine

wss://wot.nostr.party

wss://wot.sovbit.host

wss://wot.girino.org

wss://relay.lnau.net

wss://wot.siamstr.com

wss://relay.lexingtonbitcoin.org

wss://wot.azzamo.net

wss://wot.swarmstr.com

wss://zap.watch

wss://satsage.xyz

wss://wons.calva.dev

wss://wot.zacoos.com

wss://wot.shaving.kiwi

wss://wot.tealeaf.dev

wss://wot.nostr.net

wss://relay.goodmorningbitcoin.com

wss://wot.sudocarlos.com

Remember, everyone can read from these, but you can only write to them if you're in the owner's WoT.