You actually have the power to make NIP-05 mean something… Just start treating the relays that are listed in NIP-05 as mandatory. That would serve a variety of purposes…
1) The user can make sure the relays they pay for never accidentally get dropped from use if they get them listed in the NIP-05 relay list.
2) Organizations/companies that use NIP-05 to validate that the person is part of their organization can mandate their relays be used so they can monitor what's said using their official accounts. (If you don't like that - don't get verified with them - or temporarily switch or disable your NIP-05).
When you think about it the NIP-05 relays can't be changed by the user (unless the user controls the domain). So it was written to give the domain owner, not the user, control over that particular relay list (whether it was intentional or not). That's actually it's advantage over NIP-65.