you don't need a check mark to use nostr. You just need a client that allows you to select the relays you want to use.
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true, however, relays and some clients may shadow ban you if you do not have one.
The probability of an user being a bot gets reduced if there is a check mark, the check marks are free in most cases but they involve few steps that would make it harder to create profiles in large quantities by bots and start spamming the network. The pay ones add more value to the WOT since is even less likely is a bot