GM!
It’s easy to be fooled by others.
Unfortunately, a lot of people will pretend to be friends or nudge you a certain way in order for them to benefit themselves. Avoid these toxic, manipulative, selfish folks like the plague.
There are few true friends and people willing to help out of the goodness of their heart. If you find one, consider yourself lucky. If you find a few, consider yourself blessed.
Try to be one of these good people for others.
#letsgo #protip
GM PV
Any tips for spotting these people early?
The ask.
People who constantly ask is a huge giveaway. Can you do me a favor? Can you help me out with X? Can you talk to Y person for me? Can you lend me Z?
True friends are typically givers. Doesn’t have to be material things, could be time, advice, a helping hand, etc.
Another big one is negativity.
Negative people always attract issues and problems. For example: you go with them to watch a movie and they start a fight with someone in the parking lot, waiting in line, or shushing someone. If this happens frequently slow distance yourself. The toxicity is contagious.
Hang out with positive and ambitious people and that rubs off on you in a good way.
Thank you this is solid, I appreciate you taking the time.
