That’s not a solution, that’s a compromise and the drama wouldn’t exist if no one knew who was sending what or how much.
If this person who started this conversation didn’t know who was sending what and how much, this whole thread never would’ve started, it’s that simple.
Also, this isn’t high school, though I am sure there are plenty of young people on here. This is not the same as it would be if we were all sitting around a table, people tend to get nasty when they know there are no consequences for their actions, so, eliminating the variables that lead to conversations like this seems like the smartest move rather than making compromises because you don’t want to start up anything.