😂 honestly it scares a lot of people if/when they really realize this.

I generally post everything publicly because I have known this for decades no matter platform.

Only in the last three year have I done more “for friends” posts ONLY so the spammers can’t try and hijack / post in the comments their junk.

So less about it not being public (because I expect it could be leaked) and more about not wasting time on notifications for trash comments. (Which is something Nostr may have to think about eventually.)