Why do I dred going to meet up with an old friend for lunch? Is it laziness, or something else?

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It might be a feeling uneasiness. You don't know what to expect especially for those of us who have this sovereignty and freedom tech mentality. Asking yourself, "Will this relationship be similar to what it was?"

I'm only speaking from my own experience doing the same.

Yes, he is on the other end of the spectrum, but since we are both radicals, sometimes that means we have more in common than not.

COVID ran everyones political beliefs through an amplifier.

probably past disagreements

I don't have past disagreements, but I don't look forward to navigating his 20 years of political divergence. I'm hopeful we will be able to swim past that.

If they're normie, you may be anticipating disappointment & it's likely a valid presumption.

You’re an introvert that probably doesn’t prefer the conversations of topic with this individual ?

He is probably also an introvert after covid. He forgot about/ignored our meeting

Guess he didn’t want to go either

May sound weird.

I'd guess it's hormonal/neuro transmittoral .. dopamine or some other molecule already expended for other things.

Guessing not a great friend, just old? I dread most activities with people that stem from some feeling of obligation