Young women often don’t know what they want and don’t want to commit until they are older. Raising babies and young children is a full time job with no time to devote to studying. Without being able to explore first, she may become resentful or have a tough time transitioning to parenthood. Often times an age gap relationship is very short lived for various reasons.
Discussion
I think women have a good idea of what they want. They’re better than men in that regard. They just mistakenly think they can get everything they want when they’re older. They don’t have the luxury of time that men do. Aging men are not punished as harshly as aging women in the dating world. I would say that it is possible to raise children and study though. Single mothers find a way to do it 🤷♂️
It also comes down to the quality of life for all parties involved.. how a child grows up with a stay at home mom vs a working mom or single mom.
Is it better quality of life than being raised by an unhappy mother who settled for someone?
Could be.. every situation is different but certainly no one should settle leading to unhappiness and try to raise kids in a toxic environment. That should be avoided at all costs.