that's shit. relays should sync like bitcoin nodes do. So I have to follow people and their relays? sucks.
Discussion
I’m not entirely sure. I’m new to Nostr too.
There’s a lot of talk about the best way forward without bloating every relay and client with every note.
I think this is where niche specific and paid relays come into play. It’s my understanding that joining paid relays will remove the spam and clutter and only show you other users on that relay if you follow them…I think.