This is perhaps not what you would think of when talking about double standards. It is actually a double standard that we probably don't want to talk about. It's only OK if and when these things are true?! So many of us probably feel called out on this one. I think the most important thing is to be aware that it is a double standard. Not necessarily that we need to judge it one way or another. Although be careful of judging others for something many people do themselves. https://blossom.primal.net/e2618edbd9240446b89f35b590620c2e81c7346351cbc2f6667fe2e3f0b64724.mp4