been the guy in this situation, but got complimented for the massage 🤔
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Yep that’s the normal response. I was feisty. He was right. I was wrong. So it’s almost 20 years later and I’m still thinking about it.
what would you say now?
I’d apologize for being bitchy. Tell him I’d learned he was right. Tight muscles do need to gently be massaged to relax so they don’t spasm. Possibly try to see if I could convince him to give me another shoulder massage. 🤣
You go get your massage lovely ☺️🥰😉😉 let us know how it goes! A guy who’s good with his hands is a keeper I’ve heard 💯💯🫂♥️ 
Most recently got a massage from a women who used to teach at a massage therapy school for 30+ years. It was more medical but necessary. She was awesome.
I’d also probably tell him I’m sorry we met at a party hosted by the guy I was dating at the time. I crush monogamously. Even though he was awesome. My attention was already elsewhere so it was a losing game for him. Almost 20 years later and I’m like what an idiot. The guy I was seeing was acting like a self assured dick and this absolutely sweet heart of guy was right there.
Memory is funny though. More likely this guy doesn’t even remember that night.
That’s romantic 🥹♥️ I bet he does remember you! 🫂
I love your optimism. Personally it would not surprise me in the slightest if he doesn’t even remember ever meeting me.
Maybe didn’t made any particular impression or mattered
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I dunno, I’d definitely remember massaging a beautiful women 😉♥️☺️💯
I was wearing an “I ❤️ Pizza” shirt, then took it off. I don’t know if it was for the massage or because it was like a beacon to every drunk/stoned dude at the party.
It’s also been almost 20 years.
Ahh that doesn’t mean anything, I don’t remember what I had for dinner last week but I remember chasing snow in the playground around 20 years ago 😍 we remember the good stuff 🙏🏽
Some moments are memorable to one but not both. Memory is a funny and fickle beast. Who knows he could be like nostr:npub1t3ggcd843pnwcu6p4tcsesd02t5jx2aelpvusypu5hk0925nhauqjjl5g4 and remember almost nothing.
You were topless with him? Oh Mallory I’m sure he would remember you 😂🤣😂🤣♥️💯💯😍🥹🙏🏽 also lovely shirt 🥹 I too love pizza 🫂
why is there some none PG-13 content in my notification thread 🫣
The shirt was a black baby doll tee from when I worked at Extreme Pizza. (Literally rolled up from work to a party and didn’t bother to change.) Tried to see if they had any in their merch store but no such luck.
Sexy search bot thought this was rather spicy 🌶️ 😂🤣☺️♥️
all the Richard’s getting reposted whenever mentioned
Oh those two?
Richard Shaft and Richard Moll
Both died
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Guess killing on random and social reputation and gossip, or maybe even right out slander is not the lions truth of judah to kill by, as slander and such are a felony, and when done intentionally to cause harm, as well sick.
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What’s the sexy search bot? Have they reposted me? 😱
Yeahh they repost some sus stuff sometimes 🤣😂🥹 but I think this is rather sweet 🥹♥️
Can you post their npub? I can’t see who reposted that post. 🤷🏼♀️
That’s weird they somehow haven’t reposted it now 🤔 and every time I go on their page damus crashes and I can’t copy and paste the npub - it’s a bot though 🙏🏽 
Sexy search bot reposts all kinds of things I write and I have no idea what it’s cueing off of 😂
Maybe my nerdiness is just way sexier than I thought…
Aw that’s okay, am sure he knows you didn’t mean anything by it 🥹🫂