How did you explain it to the kids? Mine are little, they love their grandma and when they'll hit puberty they'll doubt my judgement. I'm keeping contact just for them.
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Mine are all under 10. I’ve told them the truth, in terms that they can understand. As they get older I will be more open and honest about who they come from, so that they can avoid following the same path. For my wife I, it’s the only way to end generational trauma and to end the cycle. My kids need to know their history and who they come from, so that they can end the cycle too.