sometimes, shunning someone is exactly the trigger they need to snap out of their nightmare. if not, at least you don't end up the victim of their illusion.
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Well... Maybe it will accidentally work out, then. I've shunned him since the last incident. I think I was the last person still in his life. I'm just worried isolation will make him even more anxious around people.
learning to let go of that attachment to their pain is also a very important lesson, as well.
ultimately, evil (which is only a human thing) is caused by illusions, and attachment is an illusion too. they have to do their own reckoning in their own time. i'm of the opinion that only if your nature is that of a healer that you should try, and before you do, you should train.
i have the nature of a teacher. to heal, the victim must overcome their fear in order to hear the information that will liberate them from their pain. i'm kinda of the opinion that this is the correct way to deal with people with problems. don't get involved. if they come to you for help, don't be naive and assume they are not just trying to steal something from you to hide that pain from themselves.
it takes a lot of discipline to be able to maintain your calm in the face of another's panic. if you fall, you just hurt yourself, AND not help them.
Funny you say that. Idk if my nature is of a healer, but I've been thinking of getting the training. Been thinking for a long time.. And one of the problems stopping me is that they basically force you to pick either psychology or medicine - both is unrealistic. But both are necessary, IMO.
well, NLP and "neuroassociative conditioning" and hypnosis are all valid and to some degree effective techniques. the process of "luring" the sufferer back to their trauma is critical, you have to bring them in, and then detach them from it.