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but it doesnt count for much if someone is alive but cant be in your life
what is the difference between that and dead?
11 8 2011
the day after the film premiere
the public transit home by myself
he texted his grandfather died
he called him Poppy
i said something to the effect of: yea well me too
as in: i am also dead to you
i might as well be dead to you
you do not speak to me except in extraordinary circumstance because you are not allowed to do so because your girlfriend said you are not allowed to do so and you agreed
was i wrong
i didnt ask if that was the cuntiest nastiest thing to ever say to someone grieving
i asked if i was wrong
is it good and really rather wise to be wrong for the right reasons sometimes? totally
do i regret that i said that?
forever
and also, i was not wrong
doesnt make it right or kind or decent or humane or warranted
all the fatphobia in the world does not justify me doing that to him