„Nothing more attractive than a beautiful mind“

What is attractive #nostr?

The look? Mindset? Intelligence?

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The soul, to have a beautiful soul is very attractive to me 💜🫂

I agree with you there. A beautiful soul outshines everything. Even through nostr. Like you, Marie

You’re gorgeous, and ditto 🙏💜🫂

Don't ask nostr this; it will say feet and penis butter

😂 beautiful feet are attractive in any case 💜 with penis butter I have not yet dared to try 😊 What about you? What do you find attractive?

How thick her tinfoil hat is

anti-thinfoil propaganda

Do you have a benchmark there?

If she basically thinks everything the news and government says is a lie then I will ask for her hand in marriage

You should find what you are looking for on Nostr

The innovative and profound weirdness… sexy.

That sounds great, what can I imagine? With weirdness I have some experience 😂.

Open heart, curious mind, and a radiant smile.

I find curiosity incredibly attractive. And a radiant smile....especially when it shines all the way to the eyes

I see Shawn’s list and raise a sense of daring adventure, a calming comforting presence also draws me in. Probably why I’m single. I want someone who has a calming, comforting presence but a daring sense of adventure. Hmmm 🤔

Do you think that this is not possible ?

I think it’s rare

You just need one 🫂

Somehow that’s still the hard part.

Yes, the problem is that you know exactly that everything else makes no sense.

My parents made it look so easy. They met in their early twenties.

It was the same with my mother and stepfather. When you had such a beautiful relationship in front of you, you hardly want less

Exactly!

Take up mountain biking. They exist.

I dated a guy into mountain biking. We met at the dog park. Absolutely the only thing we had in common.

And the dogs?

He didn’t really like my dog and my dog wasn’t too wild about him either. He had a really cute puppy. I think I liked his puppy more than him. We didn’t date long.

Mmmh, until now I have never dated a man who has a dog

I think my dog would prefer I dated someone without a dog. She’ll play wingwoman and she goes for a very specific type of guy. She did get jealous that this guy at the vet’s office had a dog. She was ready to adopt him.

Lol, dogs are a good judge of character

She adopted me so 💯

Mallory, the quality of your character is beyond question

Thank you.

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Trust your dog , always 🐶

I think Navi would love to decide who we adopted. 😂 I haven’t had a serious relationship since I’ve had her. I don’t think she would take a breakup well.

I like the idea that you are discussing this with her 😂 and also that you are talking about adopting

🤣 I don’t want to say I’m discussing it with her. Then I remembered I was talking to a guy. Sent him a picture of me and my pup cuddled up. His response to the photo was to tell me once he was there my dog was never going to be allowed in bed again. I was like Bye Felicia! Told her he just wasn’t the guy for us. 😂

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I’ve met physically attractive people who become so unattractive when they open their mouth. I feel like beautiful souls age better and it just shines through how people move through the world. I’ve heard look for a spiritual, mental, emotional, and physical connection but in that order. The order is important.

spiritual, mental, emotional, and physical - yes, I love the order

A combination of physical appearance, mindset, intelligence, funny ...and some penis butter 🐶

That sounds nice 🥰 have you met this person yet? Penis butter should never be missing 😂

Not yet , still looking 👀

I cross my fingers for you 🫂

patience, empathy, aspiration for balance, consistent with mental & physical healthcare, pushes me out of my comfort zone

Wow, an interesting list as well. What would be an example of pushing out of the comfort zone?

Hmm maybe be more assertive at work, overcome social anxieties, take life less seriously

I hope you meet the woman with whom you can achieve all this together 🫂

Intelligence, open mindedness, kindness, and a sense of humor is what is most attractive to me.

Does the order matter?

If I had to choose, then I would say kindness.

Attraction for me is mostly based on how people handle annoyances 😂

May sound odd but someone not bothered by something small is instantly attractive to me

What I also find important is how men (so in my case) treat service staff. Anyone who is not respectful and friendly here is also not interesting for me

Intelligence + beauty (physically attractive) + kind/nice + interesting + creative + original + thoughtful/considerate of other people + humble/modest = IDEAL but rare!