You have more of a chance of that than I do. Go for it! Get it done as soon as possible after thoroughly vetting a woman that you think can be your companion for a lifetime.
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Bro. I will NOT have this.
What will you not have?
Ruling out that stuff is not being realistic, it’s being a tyrant to yourself, and no one who has the patience to tolerate me is doomed.
Stop being a dick to yourself. I, a complete stranger, talk to you every day. Not because of how you look, or anything. Just because I think you’re solid. Take that as you may but you’re super fuckin hard on yourself bro and I know you think it’s being “realistic” but maybe you’re just sortve treating yourself in a way you wouldn’t want me to treat myself.
No. I haven't for 20 years and I'm not about to start being smart.
I'm solid in a few ways, and worse than a mess in others.