American Hodl makes a great point here.

And that's what I've been trying to do in my life. And what I keep posting here as well.

For important decisions, I check with trailer-park-born Lyn, and then check with like, mathletes captain Lyn or whatever the fuck she's up to these days, when analyzing things.

I'm only confident when both of those agree. And then after much time thinking and building a coherent view, my husband often calls that view retarded, so I have to argue it better and get it through his arguments to reach its final form.