That extreme individualism works just fine though if you temper it with an understanding of and acceptance of reality. That is not a compromise. That is a necessity no matter what. When you go to extremes, you discover the limits of your understanding. The answer is not to avoid the extreme. The answer is to discover what it truly means. At least that's my answer, as a hyper-individualist who happens to not be insane.
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I choose to use the norms, boundaries, languages, and conceptual frameworks that work for me, whether original or acquired from someone else. That is a great aspect of liberty.
It's not that extreme individualism can't work... it can for individuals... but I now believe that societies will crumble that embrace it.
I'm reading The Bushido of Bitcoin and Svetski discusses problems with libertarianism... and I have to agree. I identified as a libertarian for decades... then realized that the "you do you" philosophy was causing societal harm... i.e. tranny reading hour at the local day care.
Anyway, best of luck... peace to you!