Some "I told you so" moments are too late. You're dead. I'm dead. If you hadn't been an idiot, maybe we could have done something.
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Jeez that's high stakes man. I save I told you so for moments of mild annoyance, not when death is on the line
That's where I can allow myself some idiocy, or forgive idiocy. When lives are on the line, telling someone they're being an idiot is a gift. The truly idiotic thing is to be nice to them while they invite danger by way of willful ignorance.