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I knew a guy who was like "I don't wanna data a girl who has kids"

Dude was pushing 40 lol.

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You know two, now.

I might... Might make an exception. But I'm not desperate enough to consider that yet.

I'm looking at women in their late 30's who don't have kids like, what's wrong that you never went through that phase in your life?

It could have been me.

Being really picky and also having a minimal social life so you never meet people is a very bad combination.

You should had more fun in your 20's.

But I'm glad you got to start a family when you were ready, it's a brief window for women, some miss their opportunity.

My 20’s were a train wreck 😂 I definitely should have had more fun.

I have been extraordinarily blessed with the most unbelievable turnaround.

To me, after I thought about it, it was all about how the guy got those kids / what happened with him and the mother.

To my mind, there are more and less honorable answers. I was open to considering a man with kids if it were honorable answers.

Yup. That's a very good way to put it.

If he can pull <30 y o then good luck to him.

If not, lol, he's filtering for (too crazy) OR (too broke) OR (health problems).

I have a close friend who was the same until we had a frank talk about it :D

20s is too old. He needs to "pull" a 16 yo.

More like a 12 year old girl.

Jesus fucking christ I forget "people" like you even exist. Don't come around here anymore.

You're fucked.

This hits a little too close to home... 😅