Exactly! I am getting a little bit tired of listening the term being thrown around also. People that have dealt with NPDs or cluster B, usually are so caught up in healing, distress or even trying to make a life out of the destruction of self, that they have no time to thid drama altogether. I am honestly coming to the conclusion that most of the posts that we see are really the abusers online, trying to make themselves victims of the abuse they continuaslly perpretait. It's evil and mind-blowing and they do get, this way, what they seek: supply, validation, attention etc...