the way i'm starting to understand this whole thing is "sex only with someone with whom there is the potential to reproduce or with whom one has previously reproduced or will most likely in the future reproduce"

so my current understanding is we are just supposed to save up sexual energy... i don't know how this works for some people who are more sexual--> just get hitched up quick i suppose?

also if you are gay with strong same-sex attraction--> not sure what to do in that situation. God's a pretty powerful person.

but i really appreciate freedom and openmindedness. Don't try to change millennias-old "Truth" but also don't straight-jacket anyone with needless moral codes that they don't believe in.

when they finally believe, they will straighten up. Enforcing codes of behavior that someone doesn't want isn't doing anyone much of a favor since it would force that behavior "underground".

we are all hedonists running around until it's time to straighten up. and it's all part of the God's random number generator called the universe.