The only way to avoid this is by assuming it's someone who is trying to do reverse psychology and saying to disregard by actually getting responses.
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I already followed nostr:nprofile1qqsza748zkamgmw4he4hm2xhwqpxd5gkwju38wqh3twmtshx8kv8xvgppemhxue69uhkummn9ekx7mp0qyghwumn8ghj7mn0wd68ytnhd9hx2tcpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerpd46hxtnfduhs5r59tk so I felt pretty sure this wasn't an attention grab and he was safe to harass.
These days spamming the introductions tag with fake new hotty profiles is the it scam for easy zaps.
in fact it's only unsafe NOT to harass me.