Intermittent reassurance is not love.

Cognitive dissonance is not love.

Being hot and cold is not love.

Emotional manipulation is not love.

DARVO responses are not love.

Love bombing is not love...

Love is open communication.

Love is striving for understanding.

Love is aligning words with actions.

Love is vulnerability and accountability.

Love is consideration, care and a consistent will to be better for one self and the other.