all the patriarchy is
is a constellation of poisonous incentives to force women to make wrong choices
at the cost if themselves cos men find themselves inadequate
Discussion
if you took all pressure off women
if you stopped trying to force their hand
you would come to find you are more worthy than your very own heart can probably bear to take
there is no inadequacy
& you will never be able to step into having that
as an embodied experience that is real & true & actual
until you dismantle the poisonous incentives put in place for over 2000 years