nostr:npub1kdyzl44h6mhyl4djtf20w0t7avsy09umshq2k2czjf62ps774phqcd2hnf people's slavish avoidance of the latter (unless they are truly unconcerned with others) often leads them to shirk the former. I'd rather have a world of both than neither.
If pride is the price I have to pay for more discernment in the world then give me two helpings.