Why not both?

The latter... But the former is true, too.

I would only say: "Life is hard"

If it would be easy, it wouldn't mean that much. You usually attach more value to things that are harder to get.

Yes

Was kinda both at the same time with my ex.

Whether it's hard being a woman or not, I know I definitely wouldn't mind making things a little easier for you 🤪

another one where i can reply saying a little of column a and a little of column b.

Deeeeep 🤔

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