Do you have your own domain name?
If so you can create an alias address that redirects to your GetAbly, Wallet of Satoshi, etc wallet.
For example with my personal account I've got "jawsh@jawsh.xyz" set as my LN address and that redirects all zaps and Lightning payments to my Alby wallet address at "jawsh@getalby.com"
It's a similar process to using your own domain for NIP-05