No. Definitely makes the experience less peaceful
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I missed it, I'm glad we have the same vision.
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i'm not sure why it matters, it's easy to discover by their top-most post on their profile page
so long as the last seen date relates to the last public post i don't see the problem
the relay should be blocking access to the DMs without auth from a party in the DM so they won't be counted