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The biggest problem with the redpill community is that a lot of them aren’t actually redpilled. They are not seeing reality clearly because they have not fully digested the redpill. Why? Because if you actually believe that you are seeing reality clearly, it should no longer upset you. For example, if you dropped a glass of water on the floor and it shattered, you wouldn’t get mad at the laws of gravity. You’d be upset that you made the mistake of dropping the glass of water and that you have to clean it up. You would be mad at yourself, not the reality that glass is fragile or that gravity exists. You certainly wouldn’t complain that gravity is unfair and it shouldn’t cause glass to break. On the other hand, when people from the redpill community complain that there are “no good women left,” what they’re really saying is that “I’m upset with how difficult it is to incentivize a woman to love me.” They are upset with what they think to be, the nature of women. But if this was their true nature and they firmly believed it, they would not get upset about it. If people from the redpill community were actually seeing reality clearly, they’d accept reality as it is without resentment. Some women are good and some are bad, but they are all imperfect humans. They’d accept that 80% of women are attracted to and competing for the top 20% of men. This is reality. Getting upset at reality is like getting upset that the sun rises from the east and sets in the west. It’s like getting upset that you have to eat to survive. People that see the world clearly don’t get upset at the true nature of things. That would be absurd. The ones that get upset have not accepted reality yet. That is the opposite of being redpilled.

You see reality clearly when you’ve learned to accept reality as it is without resentment.

The name of the game is: when you get angry you lose / you're owned by fear.

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Fear is a common one. I think what they’re really afraid of is being alone or failing. So they comfort themselves with this lie.

I can't take seriously a guy bitching about the low quality of women nowadays. There're more top shelf women interested in you out there that one can say good morning once to each in this lifetime, let alone date or more. People forget the mirror aspect of life: you meet what your are. Low quality thots make the rest shine even brighter, so it's win win either way.

I agree completely about the mirror aspect. I would add that women have raised the bar a lot. You can view at it as good or bad but it doesn’t really matter because it is reality. Single women now outearn single men on average. And they are more likely to complete their education compared to men. So the bar has definitely been raised. You can’t just be a high school graduate with a factory job like the boomers could a long time ago. But it also means that if you can become a top earner, who is also healthy, attractive, and intelligent, then you have a lot more options with high quality women. They complain about women when it’s much easier to outcompete other men than ever before.

As a man, there's a curve. In the beginning you fixate on overcoming the competition, then you find out you are your only competition. Both parts of the journey are important. In the first part you buildup, then you sharpen your skills until you die. 😁

As for what has changed for a woman, well, most get in 24h more interactions than one would get 200y ago in a lifetime. Dopamine levels skyrocketed. This is a fact. People are adapting to this new style of living. Sounds harder to play, but it will make absolute sense only looking back on the love life, regarding the reasons for each interaction - which you don't/can't understand in real-time almost never.

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Tl;dr quick guide for boys and girls:

Boys: respect your mother (mother figure) if you want a good love life.

Girls: respect your father (father figure) if you want a good love life.

Extra for boys: your relationship with your father (father figure) will determine your money game later on.