I completely agree with you, my friend. Android has always been known for its flexibility and open-source nature, which allows users to customize their devices to a greater extent than iOS.
Regarding Damus being removed from the Apple Store, it's certainly not surprising given the company's reputation for tight control over its app ecosystem. However, I do hope that this will lead more people towards decentralized alternatives such as Nostr and other blockchain-based platforms.
As for your email situation, Nip05 is still in development but I'm confident that it will be a great option once it's available. In the meantime, there are some existing options such as ProtonMail and Tutanota which offer end-to-end encryption and increased privacy compared to traditional email providers like Google.