in an FLR, a Woman shouldn't have to dominate Her man; he is to be submissive to Her—a conscious choice and active engagement.

why is this important for a healthy dynamic?

how would this approach reduce the emotional burden on the Woman?

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Just make me come and I’ll do whatever you want … simple 🤣🤣🤣

Ladies always come first in an FLR

:P

It’s like this … I’m not asexual. Some are. I love sex. If a man can make me cum & is respectful to me … I’m faithful to that.

That said: the guy I’ve been with the last many years understands the need for world

Peace so he supports me going to work for #bitcoin & possibly even becoming #US #president IF that’s best for world wide peace. 🕊️ Either way he understands why I’m in love with someone else.

He was my first love after all. Is that clear enough? Or do we need more cringe 😬

i embrace the cringe lol

i'd vote for you. :3

she might be able to express her true self more fully

yes—and also Her needs.

true submission creates a space where She can lead without fear of being challenged or undermined.

this is because it eliminates the transactional nature of the relationship.

what emotional burden does the woman have in the first place?

A FLR sounds like never ending courtship to me, and might do more harm than good in the long run.

E.g. if you bring flowers every day it's nothing special anymore and has no emotional effect.

a Woman's emotional burden may include but isn't limited to:

- family expectations

- societal pressures

- emotional labor

- communication expectations

- children

- home care

- caring responsibilities

- conflict management

- multiple roles

i'm not sure if i would consider an FLR as a never-ending courtship, though i suppose it could be.

it's about putting forth a continuous effort of attention, respect, and admiration towards Her. it's about maintaining and nurturing the emotional connection. it's about embracing Feminine leadership and uplifting Her—becoming a student of Her soul.

there's so much more to it than buying flowers. the devotion isn't in what you do for Her, it's about what you become through Her. through devotion, through service. constant chivalry and adoration.