Eh, maybe. I wouldn't feel good thinking dudes are in group chats talking about the ladies and I don't know that I would feel good doing this in reverse. None of them have felt harassing or gross just dudes sincerely do not seem to understand what women want and also seem to not believe women when we directly say what we want.

It's as if their thought process is like... I want to see a picture of her sexy bits, so I will send her a picture of mine and then she'll respond in kind! Which is not accurate. The only strategy I've responded to is a guy who adamantly did not want pictures, then insisted that if I really wanted to send pictures then it better be one off disappearing pictures. But at no point did I see his bits and that's why I like him 😅

For me, the sexiest part of a guy is like, the upper chest / clavicle area? Or the forearms / wrist area? It's a matter of perspective, what am I seeing if/when this is successful and we actually hook up? I'm not really seeing dick in the heat of the moment like that.