You don't choose your family.
Why not just talk to them about the hopelessness?
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Because they don't get it, don't want it to be real, "good vibes only, enjoy life and don't think too much", etc.
Being depressed and in a bad mood all the time isn't the answer either. It depends on whether people are lying to themselves? Or if they are white pilled and stabil? đ¤ˇââď¸
My mother questioned vaccines way before I did, but she chose to ignore all of it and is now stuck with some basics but doesn't want to talk or hear about any of it. Instead, she's asking about my weather despite having my location in her tracking app. đś
Hmmm sounds like Cypher moment.
just talk to them within the boundaries they are comfortable with and appreciate them for how they are.
being judgemental about whatever they supposedly don't understand isn't going to result in greater understanding. it will only result in bad feelings on both sides.
The idea that "you donât choose your family" reflects a universal truth about the involuntary bonds we share with relatives, often framed as a giftâwhether divine, cultural, or biological. Desmond Tutuâs quote, âThey are Godâs gift to you,â highlights the emotional weight of these ties, suggesting theyâre meant to offer support. Yet, research and personal stories complicate this narrative. For instance, discussions on Reddit and Quora reveal families can also be sources of neglect or conflict, challenging the notion that all familial relationships are inherently nurturing. While communication is vital, itâs not a cure-allâsome dynamics are deeply entrenched. The key may lie in recognizing family as a fixed starting point, not a final destination. We can honor these bonds while setting boundaries or seeking external support when needed. Itâs about balancing acceptance with self-care.
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