tbh all my Christian friends are super nice. People stop me on the street and ask me : do you believe in god doesn’t count
The reason I really like & respect nostr:nprofile1qqsf03c2gsmx5ef4c9zmxvlew04gdh7u94afnknp33qvv3c94kvwxgspz3mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerpd46hxtnfduq3xamnwvaz7tmjv4kxz7tpvfkx2tn0wfnszxmhwden5te0vd58y6tnw3cxjmrv9ehx7um5wgcjucm0d5w28rcn is that he will criticize you with real reasons and yet he keeps the human side and say "sorry" afterwards.
I was not even offended by the criticism because good criticism inspires me and even enlightens me. Plus the criticism is about my work instead of personal.
This is a virtue that's lost in many people, even for those who are well educated with a degree.
Just several hours ago, I was criticized by someone for a joke I didn't even say to her (instead, to another dude) solely for her ignorance of humour and bad emotional control. Last month, I was also criticized (or rather insulted) by some PhD dude solely because my action was not aligned with his belief & value systems. But I did not even harm him.
A strong rational critism won't hurt me, yet a weak personal attack just breaks my heart (a little bit).
These kind of people will never admit they were wrong. If facts came out, they would just ignore facts and attach you personally. Actually, they just attack you personally from the beginning.
Sometimes it's not even about right or wrong, it's about being human and have empathy.
Nostr platform, at least now, has been the best platform in terms of public social behaviors of human being. We are free & strong here, but we are not chaotic assholes.
The fiat system does not only fuck your money, it also fucks your mind. It traps you in this rat race mentality that you easily make other people your imaginary enermies. Because the fiat system makes you weak so that you don't even dare to see & admit the real enermy because the real enermy is strong and will punish you. Criticising another person & attacking their humanity might make you feel good, but it will never solve your life problems. Even if you win the rat race, you are still a rat. I don't race with rat.
Discussion
#Friend I disagree with you. Not all Christians are good! Religion doesn’t really tell if this person is good or not.
Yes, religions should not be the universal passport to get by all situations. It’s just one aspect of the person. But on the other hand, I actually don’t personally know many religious people. So I’m curious.