This is a tough one… I remember being a 13 year old boy… like a rabbit I would’ve banged everything I could get and I think that is the default.
So rape is unlikely.
The hard question is now whether you should be allowed to have sex before you are mature enough to really decide.
And if you say no, what do we do with all the childish men in midlife crisis?
She's still a predator. Can't mix 30 yo adult with 13yo kid.
I think that is not that straightforward a question. Here in Germany for example the age of consent starts at 14 with limitations and is fully on at 16.
Generally, the line is drawn quite randomly.
The question should be, whether it was rape or not, if the boy was traumatized etc.
Yes, she is a predator. But whether it’s jail worthy, who knows.
