This might be over simplifying it but….. did you try a VPN? That’s how I got past registering my identification with the feds, just VPNed to Canada and BSed credentials.
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I ended up using a website to transfer BTC to the Lightning network... it worked great. The site is on this thread somewhere.
I think NY State has special rules about exchanges to purchase crypto. I was trying to use the exchanges but the exchanges that can handle crypto in NY don't do Lightning.
NY claims to want to protect the consumer.... I guess they forgot about their lotto machines.