I don’t have uniform metrics. This can prove beneficial and detrimental simultaneously (learned from past experience). Although useful, concreate measures can detract from true essence. It’s based on energy (as strange as it sounds). Before, I met nostr:npub16secklpnqey3el04fy2drfftsz5k26zlwdsnz84wtul2luwj8fdsugjdxk once and invited him. I’ve known nostr:npub1mdgx4zvhlhwu5lyz7qpk3auehgzaf6frlcshur0zdee0hta3sa3slpj2aj for some time and had him over recently. Others I know, but I won’t mention here. As humans, I know we have idiosyncrasies (after all, who am I to judge based on these temporal metrics) . On a base level, If you turn out to be a decent human and take action to further the advancement of our species in a positive way , selflessly, I would like to know you more. I don’t claim to be all knowing or smarter than the average but enjoy interacting with those that strive to be / do greater. I think these measures are subjective based on the individual but I’ve been blessed to know many based on them