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The feminists will always get triggered when I post this stuff, but I'm going to keep doing it for the sake of the few who listen and find true happiness.

Attempting to pigeon-hole a 28-day cycle into a 24-hour cycle is a slap in the face of nature, and will never work long-term. Your #1 goal of your 20s (your prime years) should be to find a high-quality man who can fill that provider role, so you can soften into your feminine and gain the freedom to flow with your cycle rather than constantly fight it.

If you ignore this advice, and wait until 30+ to realize you've been scammed by corporate slavery and you want to start a family, the pool of high-quality men willing to marry you will be dramatically depleted.

Trust me, or don't. The choice is yours. https://video.nostr.build/1ae3ff5600be944779952e84acb9d3d70c0e60d4a4c3d9a8ce49975880b79379.mp4

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limitlesslaurel 11mo ago

nah, break it down one more time ben, that’s a lil too 🥸

#1 goal of the EARLY 20s should be educating yourself on all the things you wish your mama taught you AND more.

especially learning the fundamentals of health, so you don’t accidentally raise a family of mashed potatoes.

#1 goal of MID 20s should be putting yourself out there, traveling maybe, finding a man maybe, or finding a passion project or hobby to keep your creative energy flowing freely.

also beginning to put that education to work- making yourself the healthiest you can be and perhaps working with kids to test your mothering skills.

what i mean is

it’s not just about finding the right man .. it’s about becoming the right woman too.

i agree, society does so much to separate us from the divine feminine we were born into, and finding a true masculine is amazing and all, but that’s not enough to heal the deep wounds of norms pressed on us.

this takes work. and while that work goes on, we gotta find support somehow, whether thru family, support groups, or female coworkers. it won’t be a man, it will be an angel god sent on our path to that man.

i found an angel while doing concrete work of all things. she taught me so much about standing true to my boundaries, with compassion and veracity. without that little piece of the puzzle, i would not be half the woman i am now. 🤷🏻‍♀️ sometimes a woman needs a lame ass job to find those angels who shine a light on that piece of her shoved so deep down she never saw it there.

eh. just my two sats. 🤙🏽

PeacePenny 11mo ago

what do you mean by the 28-day cycle into the 24-hour cycle?