nah, break it down one more time ben, that’s a lil too 🥸

#1 goal of the EARLY 20s should be educating yourself on all the things you wish your mama taught you AND more.

especially learning the fundamentals of health, so you don’t accidentally raise a family of mashed potatoes.

#1 goal of MID 20s should be putting yourself out there, traveling maybe, finding a man maybe, or finding a passion project or hobby to keep your creative energy flowing freely.

also beginning to put that education to work- making yourself the healthiest you can be and perhaps working with kids to test your mothering skills.

what i mean is

it’s not just about finding the right man .. it’s about becoming the right woman too.

i agree, society does so much to separate us from the divine feminine we were born into, and finding a true masculine is amazing and all, but that’s not enough to heal the deep wounds of norms pressed on us.

this takes work. and while that work goes on, we gotta find support somehow, whether thru family, support groups, or female coworkers. it won’t be a man, it will be an angel god sent on our path to that man.

i found an angel while doing concrete work of all things. she taught me so much about standing true to my boundaries, with compassion and veracity. without that little piece of the puzzle, i would not be half the woman i am now. 🤷🏻‍♀️ sometimes a woman needs a lame ass job to find those angels who shine a light on that piece of her shoved so deep down she never saw it there.

eh. just my two sats. 🤙🏽