One of the biggest mistakes I see men make is that when they meet and begin to fall in love with a girl, they pivot away from their goals/mission in life to focus fully on her.

This is the exact wrong thing for both your own growth AND her attraction level toward you.

When a woman senses that she is your top priority (especially early in the dating process), she will intuitively lose respect for you and become turned off, as you are signalling to her that your mission is so uninteresting that she was immediately able to crumble it.

What actually turns a woman on is a man who is relentlessly focused on his goals, and won't sacrifice his drive for his mission for anyone, including her.

THIS is the man and lifestyle that a healthy, feminine woman will want to join.

Always, always, always focus on building yourself first, physically, spiritually, and financially. I promise you that if you just stay this course, the woman of your dreams will find you, respect you, and love you endlessly. https://blossom.primal.net/45a960d056165ce0e6f6b8df43be350faca2cf054043d8c4e2e074d3851efa86.mp4