I don’t agree. It’s simply a reputation system and it’s OK if the women choose men according to their reputation.

It’s similar to when I want to do business about someone. I ask around. And reputation of the person responding to the question also comes into the equation.

It’s good even for the men - they don’t get to date with women who have shitty judgement in the apps and the way to date, saves men a lot of time with “wrong” women too.