2. Understanding of man-woman relationship dynamics and how value is exchanged

We don't really understand biology, evolution, psychology, and most other areas... because the human mind is biased. We can only see the world through our perspective and understand whatever we have experienced.

Men and women are different. We complement each other. We evolved for different purposes. We want different things. We have different goals. Our minds and bodies operate differently. And we assign value differently.

But when we interact, we think that they see the world as we do... and that they want and value whatever we do...

We try to behave politely, to seem equal, to not invade personal space, to listen, to pay attention, and to do what we said... Excellent tactic for dealing with... men. Awful tactic for dealing with women. Because all these strategies are aimed at equal value exchange, like in business... But they are very bad for establishing a dominant power dynamic.

To understand what women truly want, genetically, on their biological level, we need to analyze the evolution of humans.

In the harsh conditions we lived and evolved in, for women to have the highest chances of survival and reproduction, they needed to find the strongest, most capable man, who had the highest chances of survival and could protect and provide what would be necessary. When they found such a man, their best chance would be to submit to him, serve, and do whatever was necessary to keep him interested. All other details were not as important as these: power, domination, strength, influence. All these characteristics directly raised the chances of success.

What is funny is that it is true for all interactions, even with men. But you will get more resistance, and men challenging you will be more dangerous.

So. Women are searching for power. And they screen men. How strong and powerful are you? Can you do whatever you want? How influential are you? Can you communicate? Can you be dangerous if necessary? Is it possible to influence you? Manipulate you? How important are the people around you to you? Do you have options? Are you competent? Do you have a purpose? How valuable are your attention and time? How many other women want you? Other things do not even matter...

And this is what women search for and value.

Understanding this, you can express another part of your personality, which we usually suppress. And the dynamics of your relationships will never be the same again.