Ladies,

I've been advising you to mute first and ask questions later. I'm not joking.

And if someone tells you muting is censorship, then mute them, too.

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This is essentially the bumble model… dudes really do need to be whitelisted to talk to women πŸ˜…

Some dudes act like they had no housetraining, fr. πŸ˜‚ Mute him, quick, before he does a number on the rug.

Muting is not censorship. Muting allows both parties to win. One user doesn't have to see what they don't wish to see. One user gets to continue commenting for the world to see.

Women can be so agreeable that they keep engaging with npubs they don't actually want to interact with, so they get stressed out and feel beleagured. And then he leaves and tells everyone "she was argumentative and mean".

No, she was too nice to break off the discussion. She shoulda just muted you.

At least itβ€˜s not in real life. Just though about this Black Mirror episode: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/White_Christmas_(Black_Mirror)