Muting is not censorship. Muting allows both parties to win. One user doesn't have to see what they don't wish to see. One user gets to continue commenting for the world to see.
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Women can be so agreeable that they keep engaging with npubs they don't actually want to interact with, so they get stressed out and feel beleagured. And then he leaves and tells everyone "she was argumentative and mean".
No, she was too nice to break off the discussion. She shoulda just muted you.