lol english first language yo...

under 50 my peeps...

though its alright ... we dont need to go on and on...

we both probably said enough - any continuing misunderstanding isnt likely to be resolved in this fashion...

the common ground is that we are both concerned for the kids... i would agree that simply not approaching at all and locking oneself away is not a good method for these young guys - but many were raised in broken homes, often by women alone, so assertive self-assuredness lesson might have been lacking... this is another indication of the emasculated society we live in.

for myself, I simply have put limits on the women i will consider for long term commitments and family-building... they will mostly hold unless the person is exceptional and wants to expend energy to prove otherwise... this is a general rule I apply to western women...

there are a lot more women than western out there so dont worry for me bro-man...