I understand the feeling. As a libertarian who was interested in Bitcoin and still learning and saw some legitimate use cases for other crypto projects, I got a lot of harsh rebukes a couple years ago here on nostr. I was an anarcho-capitalist of all things, very much the kind of person who should fit in. You get blunt conversation here, it's just part of the culture. But you can form your own culture in your mutual follows for one thing, and for two, which you are doing now, you can just not take it harshly. It's usually not meant as hate. It's just how we present constrictive criticism here: blunt and straightforward. You get used to it eventually and realize the vibe is actually super friendly once you understand the lingo.
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So today I'm a hardcore bitcoiner and still an anarcho-capitalist (even more steadfastly than ever before as I've continued to learn), and just like everyone else here I'm a blunt asshole. I always have been really. But I see value in everyone and I reach out to hear alternate perspectives often. I will readily give my critiques and tell you how stupid you're being, but I do listen and I do value the multiplicity and diversity of human action and of each person's various competencies.
You get tough love here, at least in my corner of nostr. Everyone's social web is unique though. I hear Japanese nostr knows how to party hard across the Pacific.
You can't be an anarcho capitalist these terms are mutually exclusive.
It's no different to saying you're an anarcho fascist.
It's a nonsense statement.
But understand you went to school in USA and you were taught to use words like that intentionally because it makes it impossible for anyone to discuss politics