Some people are just invested in "being hurt" and that actually has nothing to do with you.
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I think I may have learned something new from what you’ve said. I’m a logical and rational person and this.. it has never occurred to me to think this.
Being over invested in being hurt protects from the pain of facing personal failure.
I never realised this was possible.
i suspect blame and projection are everywhere, because they work for many people.
they only work for like an hour for me though. then all the ways i blew it start lining up at the door
As they always do, yes. It all kind of blew up in my face. Everything I said after was taken as negative and an attack.
Ah well, such is life. You win some and lose some.