equal, no
partners, yes
it's based on trust—She trusts me provide as best i can and i trust Her decisions.
Discussion
Well you know I don't find that healthy.
If one partner is not make decisions I think both people are complicit in restraining the development of that person.
oh i understand.
it's not like i have no say in decisions, but She is typically the final decision-maker. i trust and support Her vision for the relationship and home. and this provides me plenty of responsibilities, including making decisions.
but i think my point is similar to yours in that She made a bit of a sacrifice to stay home with our child. not just in Her current income, but also future earning potential. whereas mine has increased significantly.
i view Her sacrifice as worth more than 50%. i think it's more than 100%. 10,000% if it were possible. :3
that's my commitment <3